Once again, I need to start off with a huge apology- it's
been forever since my last blog post. So much has happened since then... my
parents and friends Dug and Peggy came to visit, I celebrated my second Mbeuleukhe
gammou (a crazy religious celebration in my village), and I'm actually starting
to wrap up my time here. So let's do a little recap of what's been going on
lately...
Patton Fam in
Senegal-
This December I received my first (and last) visitors here!
My parents and our family friends Dug and Peggy Levin came to spend Christmas
in Senegal and visit my village.
Dug and Peggy arrived bright and early on the morning of
the 23rd, and my parents arrived a few hours later, after a delay from JFK. I
had two cabs waiting for us (and they ended up waiting about 4 hours because of
the delay) to take us to a beach town about 40 minutes away from Dakar. My
parents seemed delighted when the drivers helped each other push the cabs to
get them started. Hey, Welcome to Africa! I shared the cab with my parents on
the way to the beach, and they both commented on how hot, arid and dusty it
was. My mom had a hard time breathing with all of the dust in the air.
The weather was pretty hot for December. I had been warning
them ahead of time about how freezing it was here, but apparently my internal
thermometer has adjusted to Senegal-settings. You try living in 100+ weather
for months on end (without any A/C or anything fancy like that), and then cold
season arrives and the nights dip down to the 60s (without any heat or anything
fancy like that). You'd be freezing too.
We had a great Christmas in Toubab Dialaw. We met up with
my best friend Jenn and her parents, who were also visiting. On Christmas Eve,
the hotel had a performance of traditional African dancers. Then for Christmas
Day lunch, we went to a restaurant on the beach and had a huge feast. They
served us shrimp, chicken, amazing grilled fish, scallops, rice, onion sauce,
grilled veggies, etc. It might not sound that exciting to those of you living
in the Land of Plenty, but I assure you it was amazing.
Then we headed up to my village! After a six-hour drive
from the beach, we arrived in Mbeuleukhe. It seems funny now, but I had
actually been nervous that my little siblings would be shy around 4 strange
adult toubabs. Oh how wrong I was. Everyone was so excited. The presents that
my parents brought didn't hurt.
I was excited for the opportunity to get photos of both
of my sets of parents. I know that they'll be photos I'll cherish once I'm
gone. And we Pattons got the unique opportunity to get a photo of us in
Mbeuleukhe with James, even though he was back in the US...
The Story of James the Horse- at one point last
year, my host dad popped his head in my room and asked, "Mariama, what's
your younger brother's name in America?" and I responded and then my dad
left. Out of curiosity, the next day I asked my dad why he wanted to know
James' name. He replied, like it was completely normal, "Oh I wanted to
know his name because we have a new male horse;" so about a year ago the
Diaw house acquired James the Horse. Everyone calls him James, except they
pronounce it like "Jims"
There's James in between Mom and me :) |
Dad, James and Me |
So, though the real James wasn't with us, we were able to
get photos of all of us with James the Horse. We all had a lovely time in my
village, but after two nights (of very bad sleep for my Mom and Dad)
in-village, we headed to Dakar.
The highlight of Dakar was our trip to Goree Island. Goree
Island, just off the coast of Dakar, was used during the African Slave trade.
My host uncle set us up with a guide who gave us a great tour... although the
great tour was entirely in Wolof, so Fae the Translator worked some overtime
that day. Everyone should go online and check out Goree Island. Very
interesting.
The view from the ferry |
Goree Island |
The "door of no return" |
Shackles from the slaves |
Really cool sand art on Goree Island |
The artist with the finished product |
Sand art |
Our last night was very exciting. Right as we were
walking back from our last dinner together, the Pattons and Levins were
involved in a mugging! I won't go into a lot of detail. Let's just say that
everyone got all of their belongings back, and we were all fine afterward. Needless
to say, we all sat and had a much needed glass of wine after that was all done.
I had an amazing time with my family and friends, and I'm
so glad that they were able to visit. I was also glad that all of the plans I
made (i.e. transportation, hotels, etc.) worked out and that I didn't have any
language/translation issues. Thankfully they all came to visit near the end of
my service, because it definitely would not have gone as smoothly this time
last year. All in all, it was a great time together- and the next time I see my
parents, I'll be home FOR GOOD!
Dad's highlight: watching an axle change on the road |
Mbeuleukhe Gammou
#2-
January 12, 2013 was a BIG day in Mbeuleukhe. It was my
village's annual Gammou- a huge religious "learning," in which
basically everyone from my village comes back from wherever they're currently
living (like Dakar or even abroad) to reunite and celebrate. My wonderful
friends Jenn, Mac, Sarah and Tegan all came and braved it with me.
The day of the gammou began with the women cooking (we
toubabs were given the job of peeling the skin from about thirty chickens),
then getting our fabulous outfits on, greeting people, and drinking lots of
soda. The actual religious learning happens really, really late. Jenn and I
tried to wait it out and we made it until about 2:30am, but then we had to call
it a night. I have no idea when the learning did eventually begin, but I was
passed out by then. I do know that all
of us toubabs looked great though.
Skinning chickens is awesome! |
Love skinning chickens |
Looking cool with our soda cans |
Toubabs lookins FIERCE! |
Oh how beautiful we are |
The Diaw girls |
With Jenn.. love our hats |
Hanging out late at night |
Just a Couple
Months Left-
On March 9th, Senegal and I will share our two-year
anniversary together. Time felt like it had been dragging on for a bit during
the fall, but now it's flying by! Even though it seems completely unreal, I'm
actually starting to prepare my village for the next volunteer that will live
there after me. I was the first volunteer in my village, and Senegalese people
LOVE comparisons, so from now on any newcomers to Mbeuleukhe will have to live
up to their first toubab, Mariama.
I have a Close of Service (COS) conference in February,
and that's when I'll choose my actual end date. I want to stay long enough to
host my replacement on their visit to Mbeuleulkhe, so chances are I'll be out
of here by the end of April. There's a pretty good chance that a group of us
might squeeze in one more trip before we head back to the US; but even if that
happens, I should still be getting back by early May.
I can't believe it's almost time to go. I know that I'll
miss my family here, and that there are a lot of things that I'll miss about
Senegal, but I'm SO EXCITED to be coming home! I know I haven't mentioned it
very much on this blog, but living here has been a really trying experience.
It's been hard. I'm so ecstatic that I'm approaching my two-year mark and that
I still have (most of) my wits about me. I might be a crying wreck when it
comes time to leave my village, but I'm definitely going to have a huge smile
on my face when I touch down in the US!
And some
shout-outs...
Before I go, I have a few shout-outs I need to make...
To my beautiful Aunt and Godmother, Cath-
Congratulations, I'm so happy for you, and I wish I could have been there. Love
you!
To my silly, soccer star Goddaughter, Tess- Happy 13th
birthday! I can't believe you're a teenager now! I can't wait to hang out once
I'm back home. I'll make sure we spend plenty of quality time together :)
As always, thank you so much to everyone who has sent me any
packages, letters, cards, e-mails, etc. You have no idea how much it means to
get something in the mail here, or even online.
Love and miss you all!